At Gloria’s funeral, my sisters and I each gave small eulogies.
Gloria Minghella – Eulogies
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Gloria Minghella Obituary
Heartfelt thanks to all who attended the funeral and sent flowers.
It was a beautiful, sad day, and a fitting tribute to Gloria in the church (St Mary’s, Ryde) where she married in 1950, and where we were all christened, confirmed and confessed.
Among the remarkable contributions were soprano Mary Plazas’ Ave Maria, Philip Andrews’ journey from Rome to participate at the altar, and my own sister Edana’s lead on Amazing Grace. My personal and heartfelt thanks to them and to the many others who worked to make the day just perfect for Mum.
Our apologies and thanks to those who had to stand for such a long service.
The collection in church raised very substantial sums for both church funds and one of Mum’s favourite charities, the Motor Neurone Disease Association – of which Mum was IW President. Thank you for your amazing generosity.
There have been many touching tributes to Mum in person, by post, on television and across the internet and social media. Thank you.
Here is her obituary from The Telegraph.
There is also an obituary in The Times (www.thetimes.co.uk) – you will need a subscription.
A Hitch Hiker’s Guide To Philosophy
I am proud to present, from the archives, A Hitch Hiker’s Guide To Philosophy.
This video was made circa 1990 as a taster for a proposed television series, A Hitch Hiker’s Guide To Philosophy.
The writer and presenter is Bob Hargrave, who until his death in August 2012, was Lecturer in Philosophy at Balliol College, Oxford.
The television series was never made, and the video was only recently rediscovered after more than twenty years. Many thanks to Tomboy Films for organising its transfer from prehistoric u-matic tape format onto DVD.
At the time of writing, it is rumoured that Balliol College will be placing a bench in Bob’s favourite spot outside the Buttery, with the words “Bob Hargrave (1949 – 2012) Philosopher. Sceptic. Corrupter of Youth.”
If the rumour is true, then – “in a very real sense”* – this video has provided his epitaph.
My thanks to everyone involved in the making of the video, to the brilliant Kirk Jones whose directing talent was obvious even then, and especially to Bryan Loftus and Glynis Murray of Xenium Productions who enthusiastically supported this extra-curricular outing.
Enjoy!
*Official Hargraveism, often – but not in this case – used with irony.
Sebastian Peake
Hugely saddened to report the recent death of Sebastian Peake, my friend and wine dealer and son of Mervyn Peake.
He was lovely. A decent man and a sensitive man. His stories (and memoirs) spoke to themes which interest me – living alongside a writer, living in the shadow of fame. The pride and displacement of that. He may have been taken to school by Dylan Thomas, or have found Graham Greene sitting in his living room, but I suspect it was a tough way to be a little boy. He seemed to be stuck in his boyhood sometimes, or at least to be able to travel back there in an instant, acquiring a far-away and somewhat lost expression – grief, I imagine, for more than just his parents.
When it came to wine, he was a magician – telepathic, both about what you might like and about what you might be able to afford!
I’m so proud to have known him, and I send my deepest condolences to his siblings and all the family. He will be very much missed.